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Does She Actually Like You? 99% of Men Get This Wrong

Forget the Guessing Games — The Only Signal That Tells You If a Girl Is Sexually Attracted to You

3 min readMar 23, 2025

You’ve been talking to her for weeks, maybe even months. She responds to your messages, laughs at your jokes, and is even willing to meet up.

But deep down, there’s a nagging question you can’t shake:

“Does she actually like me, or am I just wasting my time?”

Maybe you’ve searched online for answers, but all you see are the same tired clichés:

  • If she texts you first, she must be interested!
  • If she remembers your birthday, she definitely likes you!
  • If she laughs at your jokes, she has feelings for you!

But let’s be honest… do these things really mean anything?

Plenty of women will text you first, remember small details about you, and even go out with you — but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re attracted to you in a romantic or sexual way.

If you focus only on these “signals,” you could end up wasting months, even years, on a woman who was never truly interested in you.

And the worst part? She probably already knows you like her… but she won’t say anything. Because, for her, it’s beneficial to keep you around.

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